Many people come into our lives, whether biologically or socially. As we mature, we decide who will continue to travel with us or who we must release. At a certain point in our lives, we learn that some friendships are healthy and some are unhealthy. Our sensory data, intuition, and wisdom teaches and allows us to choose who is beneficial. There are lessons in every relationship we have, from an acquaintance to a sister-friend. What we read, hear, touch, see, and feel can affect our hearts. What makes us obligated to maintain unhealthy friendships? Is it our need for belonging? Is it our need for misguided love? Do we feel indebted to these people? Do we feel these relationships make us more secure? Our journey reveals our needs, and over time, it will establish us in these areas or prove the deficiencies we have for readjustment.
In life's journey, we discover who we are, how we are wired, and why we exist. Life has a way of establishing the parts of us that we are willing to embrace, improve, and release. We determine what makes us effective, efficient, and content. We repurpose how we will move further and grow into the destiny God has designed for us. Now that's love, not only for ourselves but also for others. Love is not always hugs and kisses, or affection and affirming. It is making difficult decisions to improve our lives, as well as the lives of others. God's love is open, honest, courageous, wise, and everything we feel we're missing within our human relationships. His love is satisfying. It is enough to sustain us and fill what we lack.
Increased strength in making wise decisions allow for a brighter future. Everyone has strengths! Everyone has purpose! In addition, everyone can make adjustments throughout life. I remember the wisdom of our marriage counselor stating, "never forget during various phases in your marriage, you will need to readjust." I have tried keeping this in mind when marriage is difficult. This statement is not only true for marriage, but for every relationship worthy of your presence. Someone said a simple "Do You" and life will get better. I say, "Do God," He will reveal what is fruit-worthy. So, who's in your circle?
Are you concerned about releasing others who are draining your energy? Are you ready to embrace an improved life? Are you having a difficult time decluttering within your circle of friendships? Let's chat and see what we can come up with to allow you increased strength as you move forward toward a well-balanced and adjusted life. You owe it to God! You owe it to yourself! You owe it to others! You owe it to your future! Contact me.